Lets talk about LOVE BABY!
They say love is Blind. I say love has become materialistic. I say, there is a difference between blind love and being materialistic lovefool! It has been a long time since I really thought I should pen down again.
Thanks to my dear friend swapneet who accused me last night for not writing enough. Days have passed and I feel that each day offers me a learning experience. From my last post to this new one, I feel how better have I grown in my thoughts. Past few months have been truly learning experience in regards to meeting new people and knowing their culture and experiences. This time I would like to pen down about an interesting topic.
BLIND LOVEE-
My definition of blind love is where there is acceptance of your partner with all faults committed in past, present and future. I would say there can be perfect blind love if you dare to behold your own wishes and desires to certain extent. Blind love also surpasses inhibitions about financial security that your partner can offer you. I talk about financial security as it is one of the major component which circles all relationships. I guess right from the day we are born our life circles around expenses. At first- there are parents to look after and later we think abouts our life partners offering each other financial security. However, blind love can surpass this inhibition. Also, blind love can be selfless, where personal attributes of partner like being selfish, foolish, self-centered, unhelpful, arrogant and unresponsive are taken for GRANTED& FORGIVEN- BECAUSE THEY SAY ITS MAGIC LoVeeeeeeeeee :)
Materialistic Love: There are many questions as to how you can term a love to be materialistic. The adjective has got a negative connotation. However, is it not that we all crave to have better lives and better standard of living. But, how can love be materialistic? I would say because we live in world where there is immense competition. I guess as times change the concept of love has also changed. Nowdays, Some partners have relationships based on what they can offer each other. This is more related to financial security. So does this mean that when any one of the partner is in financial crisis, the other partner gives up the relationship. The answer can be NO/YES. However, I have a personal bias which makes me say NOOO... BECAUSE--- it is love baby!!! I would this kind of love also demands stability as the partners might be inclined towards securing their relationship with finances which practically means worrying about future life demands as in food,water,shelter...
With this blog am not trying to prove any kind of relationship to be based on wrong terms. This is just a random thought which occurred with general observation.
ITS LOVE BABAY!!!
Thanks to my dear friend swapneet who accused me last night for not writing enough. Days have passed and I feel that each day offers me a learning experience. From my last post to this new one, I feel how better have I grown in my thoughts. Past few months have been truly learning experience in regards to meeting new people and knowing their culture and experiences. This time I would like to pen down about an interesting topic.
BLIND LOVEE-
My definition of blind love is where there is acceptance of your partner with all faults committed in past, present and future. I would say there can be perfect blind love if you dare to behold your own wishes and desires to certain extent. Blind love also surpasses inhibitions about financial security that your partner can offer you. I talk about financial security as it is one of the major component which circles all relationships. I guess right from the day we are born our life circles around expenses. At first- there are parents to look after and later we think abouts our life partners offering each other financial security. However, blind love can surpass this inhibition. Also, blind love can be selfless, where personal attributes of partner like being selfish, foolish, self-centered, unhelpful, arrogant and unresponsive are taken for GRANTED& FORGIVEN- BECAUSE THEY SAY ITS MAGIC LoVeeeeeeeeee :)
Materialistic Love: There are many questions as to how you can term a love to be materialistic. The adjective has got a negative connotation. However, is it not that we all crave to have better lives and better standard of living. But, how can love be materialistic? I would say because we live in world where there is immense competition. I guess as times change the concept of love has also changed. Nowdays, Some partners have relationships based on what they can offer each other. This is more related to financial security. So does this mean that when any one of the partner is in financial crisis, the other partner gives up the relationship. The answer can be NO/YES. However, I have a personal bias which makes me say NOOO... BECAUSE--- it is love baby!!! I would this kind of love also demands stability as the partners might be inclined towards securing their relationship with finances which practically means worrying about future life demands as in food,water,shelter...
With this blog am not trying to prove any kind of relationship to be based on wrong terms. This is just a random thought which occurred with general observation.
ITS LOVE BABAY!!!
